long distance relationship

[jayan]

i had a boyfrend for almost 4 yrs and a month i left my country to help my family and i dont have a job now yet i reaaly love him and im so sad that i didnt introduce him to my family even we were 4 yrs its impossible ryt but it happens sometimes im scared because mybe our relationship didnt last because wer far from each other and he dont have money or moves to follow me here because were both poor thats the other reasons why i ddnt introduce him to my family because he dont have job ilovehim very much to the sense that i want to have kids with him but what happen to us if we did it without savings and i wanana help my family first before i have to have my own family sometimes my auntie told me that maybe shes gonna find boyfrend for me here in saipan that is us citizen so that i can petition my family but its hard for me to marry someone i didnt love pj is my dream husband cause i know him and he really loves me so much pls help me guys i need more advice tnx a lot! im gonna wait for your reply godbless u all!

[Heidi]

Tough situation... how long do you have to stay there with your family? If the two of you have been together this long you may be able to wait it out a bit longer. Keep contact through internet or phone. there are always ways when there is true love. Are you able to tell your family about this man that you love? Maybe that would help.
good luck

[shom]

Hi,

The path choosen by you is correct. now only thing which you can do, to find some way for your love to come up.if he really loves you then he has to grow up and should work hard to get a nice job. Second thing then would required from your side to introduce him with your family. But Upper than all.....you really need a strong effort from the guy, because untill and unless he doesn't any job.....there are very less chances......

All The Best. and remember "There is no word like impossible in Love....in love it becomes "I M Possible" !!!!!"