when these confusing situations arise i honestly believe confronting the other person always sets things straight. If you are interested in being with your ex and possible patching things up then ask him if thats what he wants as well. I was in a similar situation with my ex. I dated mine for four years on and off and the one prblem i encountered was that the same issues always arise. Theres a reason why you didnt work out the first time and you should make sure that this issue wont come up again.
Confront him tell him how you feel and what you want, his reaction will give you all your answers
as for the girlfriend she may be a distraction for him or maybe he is serious about her. Once again hell let you know

Tough situation... how long do you have to stay there with your family? If the two of you have been together this long you may be able to wait it out a bit longer. Keep contact through internet or phone. there are always ways when there is true love. Are you able to tell your family about this man that you love? Maybe that would help.
good luck

I think shes just worried about taking that extra step. She may love you as much as she claims but what you have to realize is women WORRY they worry and they worry even more when there's a child involved.
you have only being seing each other for a little more then 6 months. I think you should give her a bit more time, she didnt give you a flat out no she said shed have to think about it. In my opinion shes being cautious and you shouldnt take it to much to heart just let her have her time to feel comfortable with the idea of taking that next HUGE step.
Good Luck

Heidi

 If she wanted you to commit and now shes saying no there must be a reason for her changing her mind.. maybe this sudden change in you came too fast, she might be unsure of if she should trust that or not. Did you ask her why she refused you?? That might be a start. As for the depression thing, its not easy to be with someone who has depression, can be very hard on a relationship. Maybe she should consult someone about it, theres so many things you can do nowadays for that sort of thing.
But back to her refusing.. my suggestion would def be ask her why and then go from there. Women sometimes do and say things cause their worried.. we worry alot hehe so sit her down find out her worries and then be there to reassure her.
Hope this helps
Good Luck.

You see the controlling part.. maybe not.. im leaning more towards the insecurity.. I dont think hes going to become one of those crazy bfs that wasnt my worry, just that the jelousy getting worse means more stress on our relationship.. I appreciate your thoughts maybe it is time to go see someone with him bout it , hopefully that will help.
Thanks

Perhaps i wouldnt call it using.. maybe the two of you just are not on the same page. Its very posible he was just interested in a night with you and doesnt want anything serious and thought thats what you wanted too. Unless you made yourself clear that you want more?? Then again  it is posible that he does like you .. maybe you should just ask him straight up if he wants anything with you.. good luck hun

Well here is goes.. I have an amazing boyfriend whom im completely in love with. We're really serious and i feel like hes the one. Theres just one lingering worry about him, hes very very jelous. If a guy even looks at me he freaks out, he doesnt like me talking to other guys and forget going clubbing without him,he hates my friends and thinks they're a bad influence on me and dislikes it if they take away from his time with me in other words if i were to see them one day and not him. We see each other like everyday. I dont feel smothered or anything im just worried that because of my love for him that im blind to the possibility that this jelousy could get much much worse. All i know is that other then this hes your model boyfriend and ive never had someone treat me so well. Do you think im worrying in vain or that i might actually have a problem here.?