Why is it a man is like an off and on light switch? 

Is it that he wants me to actually begin having nothing more to do with him simply because I can not ride on his up and down rollercoaster of selfishness anymore?  A friendship is out the question after such a ride and when I do go through with my decision of getting off the rollercoaster, why is it that I feel like I am being so hateful when I am just simple being the woman I am suppose to be and stand up for myself?

Seems in the times that we all live in now have caused each every relationship to be nothing more but one problem after the other.  Times have definitely made things difficult in the world of relationships and as the time moves on....the harder they will get.