what do i do???????????????????????????/

[aussiemess]

Please help.I was seeing a beautiful PERFECT women (i will call her msm).I didn't commit fully to her as she suffers from depression and i want to have a kid.I would stay at her house on the weekends with my son(from another relationship)msm offered me everything and i mean absolutly everthing,her house ,her family ,her sole and more.After 2 .5 years i couldn't /didn't let her touch me in front off my son.we broke up My fault as i didn't fight for her .She went away recently and whilst she was away i relized ,who cares if she suffers from depression.I will risk having a child with her.That was my only problem with her and for her my problems were commitment.So when she returned from her holiday i met with her and told her all off the above.I also asked her to have a child with me .She said she would think about it,as she still had a problem with not beleiving that i would commit.I told her she could touch me in front off my son,a big deal for me. .So 2 days later i asked her to marry me.she thought about it for a couple off days and today she said ....NO ...i am shattered.I do not see myself with out her.i need help.

[Heidi]

 If she wanted you to commit and now shes saying no there must be a reason for her changing her mind.. maybe this sudden change in you came too fast, she might be unsure of if she should trust that or not. Did you ask her why she refused you?? That might be a start. As for the depression thing, its not easy to be with someone who has depression, can be very hard on a relationship. Maybe she should consult someone about it, theres so many things you can do nowadays for that sort of thing.
But back to her refusing.. my suggestion would def be ask her why and then go from there. Women sometimes do and say things cause their worried.. we worry alot hehe so sit her down find out her worries and then be there to reassure her.
Hope this helps
Good Luck.

[bellap]

I say that even though it is extremely hard, you move on.