Was I just used?

[nicegirl00]

Long story!  Please bear with me through all the details!  So I met this guy back in June and we have hung out and been in contact on and off since then.  Last Friday I invited him over out of the blue.

So he came over even though it's over an hour drive.  So we had a nice night, hung out, talked, drank, got a little too drunk and one thing led to another.  Yeah, we had sex.  So afterwards he wrapped his arms around me and fell asleep.  The next day he was in a really good mood seemed all happy and still wanted to cuddle and even wanted to hang out that day but I was hungover.  So he left, and he texted me a little after he left to say he had fun.

Oh, and while I was drunk and not thinking I told him about a long-term on and off boyfriend I have and he was like "Don't tell me that, what if I start to really like you?"

So I have texted him a few times since then, and he has texted back.  Except for an hour ago I texted him and he hasn't gotten back to me.

So I'm getting a little paranoid.  Did he just use me and now he's gonna dissappear?  Could he be interested in me?  I'm confused!

Thanks!

[Heidi]

Perhaps i wouldnt call it using.. maybe the two of you just are not on the same page. Its very posible he was just interested in a night with you and doesnt want anything serious and thought thats what you wanted too. Unless you made yourself clear that you want more?? Then again  it is posible that he does like you .. maybe you should just ask him straight up if he wants anything with you.. good luck hun

[solodolo]

Sounds like you should just sit on your hands hun!
Dosent sound like he just used you...if so he woulda left right afterwards...
He will text you back in due time....he may just be playing the game...who knows?