my ex boyfriend

[nab105]

have known my ex boyfriend for 11 years now and we dated on and off for 4 years we were each other's first love and shared a real bond but he was more interested in his friends we are 27 now

I have stayed in contact with his mum for all that time she always says to me that I am the daughter she never had. Just recently my ex has contacted me we have been sending emails to one another

I have been having trouble in my current relationship long before my ex emailed me I asked my ex how things were going in his life and he didn't say much. We just spoke about everyday things. Then out of the blue after numerous emails he tells me he has a girlfriend who he has beenwith for 1 year and half.

Its funny because his mum knew nothing about it nor did his dad you would think that if you were dating someone for that long that you would introduce them to your family. I'm met his family early in our relationship. He mum would have told me we are very close she wouldn't have not mentioned it I have known her 11 years.

My ex told me if I ever needed to talk that I could come round to his or maybe watch a movie. Why would he want to do that wouldn't he be worried about his girlfriend

I had hope for us I never stopped loving him I don't know what to do

Please help me

[gregg]

First off, if you are having troubles with your current relationship decide if the relationship has a future. If it doesn't end it. There is no use being in a relationship that stresses you and doesn't really have a future. Being single isn't all that bad with good friends.

It sounds like your ex has feelings for you still, but if they are strong or not is something that he might not even know. That he contacted you while in a relationship tells that either he just missed you as a friend, or that his current relationship has times he wishes he wasn't in it. His offer to you to come around if you needed someone to talk with or watch a movie with ... could just be concern for you or his wanting to see you to figure out what feelings he has. It is a non-commit way of checking things out.

Since you never stopped loving him, this could be a heart-breaker for you. But, you might want to take him up on seeing a movie. See how things go in person. But, don't let things go too far unless both of you end current relationships. Not only is that the right thing to do, but it shows commitment and ethics for both of you.

Good luck!