Jelousy worry

[Heidi]

Well here is goes.. I have an amazing boyfriend whom im completely in love with. We're really serious and i feel like hes the one. Theres just one lingering worry about him, hes very very jelous. If a guy even looks at me he freaks out, he doesnt like me talking to other guys and forget going clubbing without him,he hates my friends and thinks they're a bad influence on me and dislikes it if they take away from his time with me in other words if i were to see them one day and not him. We see each other like everyday. I dont feel smothered or anything im just worried that because of my love for him that im blind to the possibility that this jelousy could get much much worse. All i know is that other then this hes your model boyfriend and ive never had someone treat me so well. Do you think im worrying in vain or that i might actually have a problem here.?

[gregg]

You may have cause for concern. Have you ever asked him why he is so jealous, or behaves that way?

Either he is very controlling which is very bad, or he is very insecure and not trusting. Maybe by talking with him you can find out the reasons for his actions. Once you find out, you may want to ask a professional counselor or again ask here.

Good luck!

[Heidi]

You see the controlling part.. maybe not.. im leaning more towards the insecurity.. I dont think hes going to become one of those crazy bfs that wasnt my worry, just that the jelousy getting worse means more stress on our relationship.. I appreciate your thoughts maybe it is time to go see someone with him bout it , hopefully that will help.
Thanks

[sweetred1]

It's not good having someone that treats you like that. Thank god you only girlfriend and boyfriend. Honey take it from me having a man like that is nothing ,but alot of heart ache. And it only gets worst one day you will find yourself with no one to talk to. I know you love him to death, but face the facts really deep down your not happy.Someone once told me that it's not good to worry all the time, feeling like your in prison in your on home. You feel like this page is a way for you to talk, to get some of the weight off your shoulders. And theres nothing wrong with that. Hell thats why i'm here so I can at least talk to someone and to let some of the weight of my chest. It show feels better when you DO!!!!!!!!!!! 
So  dear everything will be OK just KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!!!!!