Is this worth breaking up?

[snowbrdjunkie]

Ok, I need everyone's input. To make a long story short. My BF and I have been dating for almost a year. We had a fight last Monday, it was the week we're supposed to be in Tahoe together. Just 3 days before we were going up,  we fought. And here's what we fought about. A co-worker of mine asked me a questions, regarding an ex hanging around. So, I repeated the question back to him (nothing pertaining to us) and he thought I was questioning him regarding him and he's ex. So, he got really upset at me. First of all, the question was a random question has nothing to do with him nor the relationship. Than he told me that he didn't want to talk to me. So, I left him alone that evening. I stayed at my place. So, Tuesday roll around, I texted him and told him that I need to pick up some of my belongings for work (I left all my stuff there) and so he unlocked the house for me. I went there hoping that he will be there so we can talk but he wasn't. So, I text him and asked where he went, and that I wasn't going to leave until he come home and talk to me because I want to make sure that we're okay. And then he text back and threaten me that if I don't leave he was going to call the police on me. So, I gathered my stuff and left his house. I don't understand why he would be so upset at me. First of all, he didn't want to talk to me. So I figured ok, he doesn't want to deal with me right now, I thought it might be a nice break. I took off to Tahoe early to be by myself. And I guess he came looking for me, and he couldn't find me. And if he came he should've found me. He has the address to the cabin and directions. He said he couldn't find me anywhere. I think that was full of sh1t. So, today, we had a huge blow up about it that ended our relationship. He accused me of being up there with someone else which I was waiting for him the whole time.

So, he said he can't trust me anymore. What the heck! It is worth fighting over it, and ending what we both had? And the question I asked, was "Do you think it's disrespectful/wrong for an ex to call at odd hours?" That is all being asked and he got really defensive and upset at me and ended our relationship.

[gregg]

Wow! Talk about a misunderstanding blown out of proportion. It is worth breaking up over? Well, yes and no. The reason he got upset was not a good reason. His reaction on the other hand could be. Since you already broke up, see what happens. If he figures it out that he over-reacted then it is up to you if you want to take him back. If not, well at least it happened before you were together for many years...

Good luck!

[sweetred1]

Girl let me lay it down to you like this. Did it ever cross your mind why did he just fly off thee handle, like that. It only two things, One he's missing with his ex or who ever or Two he's thinking about messing with someone and that his only way out.

[bellap]

ABSOLUTELY!  Honey, don't look back.  Something is up here and you'll just get hurt in the end.