my ex boyfriend

[nab105]

have known my ex boyfriend for 11 years now and we dated on and off for 4 years we were each other's first love and shared a real bond but he was more interested in his friends we are 27 now

I have stayed in contact with his mum for all that time she always says to me that I am the daughter she never had. Just recently my ex has contacted me we have been sending emails to one another

I have been having trouble in my current relationship long before my ex emailed me I asked my ex how things were going in his life and he didn't say much. We just spoke about everyday things. Then out of the blue after numerous emails he tells me he has a girlfriend who he has beenwith for 1 year and half.

Its funny because his mum knew nothing about it nor did his dad you would think that if you were dating someone for that long that you would introduce them to your family. I'm met his family early in our relationship. He mum would have told me we are very close she wouldn't have not mentioned it I have known her 11 years.

My ex told me if I ever needed to talk that I could come round to his or maybe watch a movie. Why would he want to do that wouldn't he be worried about his girlfriend

I had hope for us I never stopped loving him I don't know what to do

Please help me

[Heidi]

when these confusing situations arise i honestly believe confronting the other person always sets things straight. If you are interested in being with your ex and possible patching things up then ask him if thats what he wants as well. I was in a similar situation with my ex. I dated mine for four years on and off and the one prblem i encountered was that the same issues always arise. Theres a reason why you didnt work out the first time and you should make sure that this issue wont come up again.
Confront him tell him how you feel and what you want, his reaction will give you all your answers
as for the girlfriend she may be a distraction for him or maybe he is serious about her. Once again hell let you know